Looking ahead to 2023

Opportunity knocked this week.

I was asked to develop the curriculum and coach/teach a F2F/virtual sewing course geared to 4th-8th grade students. Classes would start at the end of January and meet one Saturday a month F2F with weekly virtual office hours. Since I live 60 miles from the facility, the director floated the idea of volunteers hosting interim work sessions about 2 weeks after the F2F class with me.

Lots to ponder and think about. You know this is right up my alley!

I shared the news with my Mom, who still runs her own business at age 78. She informed me that she didn’t think I’d stay “retired” long. She said I needed something to keep my brain occupied. As usual, she’s right. 🙂

Half Circles and Hawaiian Shirts

Now that my studio is put back together, I unearthed all of the bits to the Metamorphosis quilt (pattern from from Lo & Behold Stitchery) that I’d been working on struggling with. Essentially I’m making a butterfly themed memory quilt out of Hawaiian shirts. The end result will be a throw-size quilt and three coordinating 20″ pillows. The shirts range in size from XXL to 3X, so I have plenty of fabric to do a pieced back for the quilt and pillow covers. Thankfully, there’s also enough fabric left over to fix any screw-ups on matching/coordinating the butterfly wings.

The good news is I’m farther along in the process than I remembered. All I need to do is cut up the rest of the Hawaiian shirts and I can get sewing on the butterfly wings (half circles). I spent this afternoon doing just that. As is standard practice with t-shirt quilts, I bagged up all the leftover shirt materials and put them aside for safekeeping. I keep any leftover bits until the finished project is delivered to the recipient.

The goal is to finish remaining butterflies this week, so I can assemble the quilt top and start quilting. My plan is to echo quilt the semi-circles on the wings and do a small meander on the blue background with a wave/ribbon candy in the sashing.

The class I took at the Garden of Quilts with Fran Gulick of Cotton & Joy was a big help in overcoming my issues with curved piecing. Here’s that project below:

If I ever attempt a memory quilt project with curved piecing again, I’m going to treat the clothing like I do t-shirts in a t-shirt quilt – stabilize anything that moves. The slippery rayon shirts have been a bit of a challenge to maneuver under the needle. I am stitching on my Janome 8900 using the HP foot (looks like Singer FW original presser foot), straight stitch needle plate, stitch D4 with settings of SL= 2.0 and SW=.6, and a purple tip needle with Wonderfil DecoBob (80 wt) thread. I am extremely happy with the results.

Six months into retirement

Yesterday, two pieces of mail sparked a conversation: (1) the monthly COBRA insurance bill and (2) pre-approval letters from Anthem for the scans that hubs will have done after Thanksgiving. We both remarked how grateful we are for our current health insurance coverage. Hubs wisely observed that without it and COBRA continuation coverage provisions, we’d both still be working (or at least I would be). Very true.

Six months in, I can say that my personal money fears have eased considerably. Despite inflation and a tumultuous stock market, we’ve been able to do what we want to do and still keep (mostly) within budget. Giving myself permission to actually spend the money we’d specifically saved for retirement was harder than I anticipated. Thankfully, I’m over that, now!

Daily social interactions and problem solving/business challenges are two things we miss most about the workaday world. Volunteering provides many opportunities for social interaction and to utilize your specific skill set. You’ll definitely have to try some different volunteer stints before you find one that’s a good fit.

We do know a move away from the ATL is in our future. As much as we love our home, neighbors and our proximity to literally everything, we quickly realized we don’t need this much house nor do we need to be close to the ATL airport since hubby is no longer a road warrior. Our once suburban area is now definitely considered “desirable, urban & close-in” with the traffic, development, crowds, higher taxes and crime to go along with it. Time to cash in and move to somewhere a little more serene. The biggest question is where to move? That will be our mission in 2023.

Over the past six months, I’ve learned to be more present and worry less about the future. We’ve done everything we know to prepare – time to go experience what today brings and live life to the fullest. Tomorrow is not guaranteed.