Cheap or frugal?

“I’m cheap,” our instructor freely admitted at the class on Thursday as she carefully pocketed the envelope in which I’d placed my kit fee, rather than hand it back to me. I was amused, but said nothing. We’d heard that phrase throughout the day in reference to many things in her creative process and life. Her mindset is certainly about paying the least amount possible for EVERYTHING.

As a recent retiree, I am certainly cost conscious, but I prefer the term frugal over cheap. I generally focus on value for money spent, rather than always getting the lowest price possible. This is reflected in how I run my business. I charge a fair price, while giving customers good value for their money. Cheap customers are why I stopped making t-shirt quilts. I merely referred them to an online service that could churn out the “blanket” they wanted at a super cheap price. More discerning customers who appreciate craftsmanship were referred to a local business that specializes in memory quilts. Now that I have more time to devote to quilting, I have resumed making memory quilts for those who are “quiltworthy.” Most folks are still referred to the local/online service providers.

Receiving my final paycheck on Friday forced a bit of a reality check as I reviewed our expenses over the past four months. Yes, I budgeted correctly for an average month. That said, I underestimated our pent up demand for travel and the cost associated with properly outfitting hubby for hiking trips. Inflation’s impact on everything else was also an unknown. Travel aside, our expenses in retirement (so far) are actually quite a bit lower than they were when we were both working full-time. This echoes what one of hubby’s former coworkers stated at his team’s retirement celebration. We no longer pay a premium for items and services to make life more manageable for us. There is no longer a need a daily pet sitter, more meals are eaten at home and we are able to take advantage of free/low-cost entertainment offered at non-peak times. No back-to-school wardrobe, new lunch box and classroom supplies for me this year either! Health insurance will actually become our largest monthly expense once COBRA coverage begins. That’s pretty sad, isn’t it?

Frugality over three decades it what made it possible for both of us to walk away from our jobs this year at age 57. We aimed for FAT FIRE, followed Dave Ramsey’s wisdom and finally figured out how much was enough with Wes Moss. Once we hit that number, we planned hubby’s exit strategy and later mine. No regrets.

Learning new things

This week I took a hand embroidery and beading for quilters class with Catherine Redford. What fun!

Definitely stepped outside my comfort zone on Thursday with going to a class where I knew not one person and doing stuff way more advanced than my simple redwork and cross-stitch skills. I did enjoy the folksy look of the hand embroidery sampler, but really LOVED the beading lessons. I was amazed at the difference a bit of simple hand stitching and bead placement can make in a project. This is the extra bit of oomph I’m looking for to up my show quilt game.

Also attended my first official guild meeting this morning. There’s definitely a lot of talent and opportunities for leadership, social and skill development (for me) with this group of ladies and gents. One of the ladies I met at the embroidery class yesterday recognized me and took me under her wing during the meeting. I really appreciated her showing me the ropes. I checked out a book from the library and picked up some fabric to make placemats and a kid quilt for the charities the guild supports. Hey, opportunities to practice my FMQ and ruler work! 🙂

Enjoy some photos from Thursday’s class!

Catherine Redford, Instructor
Beading sampler
Chain stitch (plain and embellished), blanket stitch and French knots

Do you prefer piecing or applique?

Me? Piecing, hands-down. Most every project I’ve completed in the past two years – regardless of designer – has been pieced. Just take my Lori Holt projects for instance: A Quilter’s Cottage, My Happy Place, Great Granny Squared, projects using blocks from Vintage Christmas and Farm Girl Vintage I/II…yeah, I’m all over those.

Not so much with the half-finished Granny’s Garden that’s been languishing in my studio. Why? It’s primarily applique. The blocks are simply gorgeous, but seem to require 3x the work of a pieced block. I’m good with a mix of some applique, hand embroidery and embellishment on a quilt, but my preference is definitely not for a primarily appliquéd quilt top.

There, I said it.

That’s why I scaled Flea Market Flowers back to a single large pillow, so I can do the Dresden flower technique. I skipped Chicken Salad and decided against Prairie Meadow for the same reason – primarily applique. I did order the Prairie Shoo-Fly Stars boxed kit, though because – you guessed it – it’s a pieced project. I’m also eagerly waiting on my copy of Scrappiness is Happiness.

Now that I have more time for quilting and a desire to take on more challenging projects, I may decide to go back and tackle blocks/projects that use the Sew Simple Shapes I’ve collected. Before I do that, I’ll complete the Granny’s Garden quilt.