Tag: Travel

Stop getting your bloomers in a bunch!

February 13, 2026

A birth certificate shows the name you were given at birth, plus other information such as time, date, city and state of birth.

If you’ve been married, divorced or otherwise gone before a judge to change your legal name, YOU DO NOT GO BACK AND CHANGE YOUR BIRTH CERTIFICATE – despite what some of the political and media talking heads would lead you to believe.

Instead, obtain a certified copy of your marriage certificate, divorce decree or other legal paperwork documenting the circumstances surrounding your name change. Contact the Clerk of Court in the county where the event was recorded to obtain certified copies. Costs and timeframe for document delivery will vary. Keep this paperwork with your birth certificate to document your current name.

Need a copy of your birth certificate? Check with your parents, to see if they still have it. If not, order a certified copy from the Department of Vital Records in the state where you were born. This may cost about $20 and take 1-2 weeks to arrive.

Is it fair that the onus is primarily on women to have to take these extra steps to document a name change? Not necessarily, but I’m the one who chose to change my last name to match my husband’s. Yes, it was a hassle to have to change everything after we got married 35 years ago, including my passport – which I’d obtained in college to participate in a study abroad program.

Keep your important documents (birth certificate, marriage certificate, divorce decree, adoption/guardianship paperwork, passport, deed, car titles, wills, healthcare directives, POA, Social Security card, etc.) in a small locked fireproof box in your home. You can easily grab it in case you need to leave in an emergency situation.

Why do we hang on to these documents? That certified copy of our marriage certificate finally saw the light of day again in 2021 when I added hubby to my health insurance plan during open enrollment as part of our preparations for early retirement.

Small lockable fireproof box available as mass retailers for about $35.00

Myrtle Beach Quilt Party

January 25, 2026
Sunrise over the Atlantic Ocean at Springmaid Pier, Myrtle Beach, South Carolina

The Myrtle Beach Quilt Party celebrated its 36th year this past week. I discovered this event about five years ago when I began compiling a list of all the quilting events I could attend once I left teaching and was longer tied to an academic calendar. I officially retired at the end of 2024. My goal is to knock 1-2 events off my list every year.

Myrtle Beach Quilt Party offers attendees the choice of taking instructor led classes or BYOP for the entire 3 days. I chose the Checks & Blossoms class, which is based off the Pecan Blossoms pattern from Fig Tree Quilts.

A completed block for the Checks & Blossoms class project.

Classes met in various rooms of the conference center at the The Ellie/Doubletree Springmaid Resort. About half of the classrooms had an ocean view. Unfortunately, mine did not. 😦 However, I did have a nice, sturdy workspace all to myself, plus a group of very nice ladies around me to chat with while I worked. My set-up is pictured below. See the lady in the pink top? The ocean view was behind the gray panel dividers opposite her.

A highlight of my trip was getting to have lunch and hang out in the vendor area with Sharon. Our paths last crossed at the 2024 QuiltCon in Raleigh, N.C. Perhaps she’ll be able to attend the MBQP in 2027? If a class catches my eye, I’ll definitely be back!

My set-up at the retreat.

My time in Myrtle Beach was cut short due Winter Storm Fern. I’d originally planned to extend my stay an extra day to avoid the bad weather at home. However, increased ice accumulation predictions for my side of the ATL had me heading back mid-day on Friday ahead of the storm. No regrets about that decision. We did get freezing rain, sleet and snow on Saturday night. My metal front porch rails look like glazed donuts right now. There are power outages near us, but thankfully our power is still on. Temperatures have warmed to the point where the predicted icy mix for us this afternoon will be all rain instead. That’s a good thing. Other parts of the ATL did not fare nearly as well.

I stayed on The Ellie side of the Springmaid Resort. The rooms are nice. However, they are arranged in a horseshoe configuration where every balcony overlooks the pool area. I could see straight across into all of the rooms on the opposite side. Not quite the ocean view I was expecting. If you, like me, prefer a more private ocean view from your balcony, consider the DoubleTree, which is adjacent to The Ellie.

Amused

December 23, 2025

Lately, my YouTube feed has been full of “I’m not doing/buying [insert name of activity/item] in 2026” videos. I find them entertaining. The only two things I’m not buying in 2026: thread and sewing machine needles. I’m well-stocked on those items! Otherwise, 2026 is planned to be a low, but intentional, buy year for me when it comes to quilting. My priorities for 2026 are education, completing UFOs and supporting charity projects.

What does my intentional quilty spending look like? I’m definitely taking the EPP class offered through my quilt guild. Potential classes and retreats will be regional (within a 6 hour drive) and to places I’ve never been. Sadie and I will participate in the grand finale of the Middle Georgia Shop Hop. We’ve done this every February since 2020. Participating shops have chosen to switch to the brand new All Southeast Shop Hop that kicks off August 1st. I’ll buy the official magazine from a LQS in June, but skip the tri-state shop hop.

Personal shopping habits have changed over the past year. It’s partly due to business closures and former pet-friendly store policy changes. A serious destashing and rehoming of supplies makes it easier to see what I have on hand. The super thrifty mindset of certain crafty friends has also rubbed off on me. I shop only if I need something to complete a project or for a class I’m teaching. I buy online (saves time and gas) and yes, I’ll go to Hobby Lobby and/or Michael’s because Sadie can go in the store with me. Special trips to the LQS have become a rarity.

Tip: Even if money is super tight, find a way to set aside a nominal amount (say $10-$20) each month toward a hobby that you absolutely love. True, $120 to $240 is a drop in the bucket when the average quilter reportedly spends $3200/year, but that small amount will make a huge difference in your overall well being. (Ask me how I know.) This money can cover your annual dues so you can participate in your local guild, cover a workshop fee and/or allow you to participate in some social events like the occasional lunch or shop hop outing.