Perplexed
Money’s tight, job layoffs are looming, health insurance premiums are spiking and yet folks are out there Christmas shopping like there’s no tomorrow. Why? I went to a specialty kitchen store to get a set of baking pans Mom had requested for Christmas. The shopping center’s parking lot was already PACKED at 10:30 a.m. on a Friday. Make it make sense.
We’re still doing all the usual things that we do during the Christmas season, but in a more intentional way (with a side of frugality thrown in the mix). Our home is simply decorated with only our favorite Christmas items this year. The Spode Christmas china came out the day after Thanksgiving and will be used daily through the New Year. We skipped buying any new collectible Hallmark ornaments. For Christmas cards, we used up all the random cards leftover from previous years before opening any new boxed cards. Christmas stamps from the post office were very pretty this year, but we chose not to buy any specialty stamps. Instead, we mailed our cards using stamps already on hand.
Our families chose to gift practical items and/or experiences this year. Nieces and nephews shared short lists of things they really want for Christmas. I think we’re gifting more physical items than gift cards for a change. We advised said nieces and nephews that we didn’t need any gifts for Christmas. I told one niece that I guess this means we’re old. She replied, “Not old, just content.” That’s a nice way to put it.
One of my friends observed that we’re at the point in life where we can just go buy things we need (and sometimes want). We don’t necessarily have to wait for Christmas or special holidays. She has a point.

